Do you have the gift of gab? Small talk is important for connecting with others, but some people are better at it than others. Some experts worry that young people are so wrapped up in texting and videogames that they aren’t learning the basics of conversation. Dr. Bernardo J. Carducci, professor of psychology and director
Do you have the gift of gab? Small talk is important for connecting with others, but some people are better at it than others. Some experts worry that young people are so wrapped up in texting and videogames that they aren’t learning the basics of conversation. Dr. Bernardo J. Carducci, professor of psychology and director of Shyness Research Institute at Indiana University Southeast, says that conversational intelligence can be developed. Your opening line should focus on something that you and the other person are both experiencing, followed by a personal introduction. Asking questions can help to get the conversation started and keep it moving, but you need to be careful not to talk too much. If the other person is rambling on, try mentioning something about yourself when the person pauses for a break. End the conversation gracefully by saying something to let the other person know you were listening and thanking him or her or looking for a way to stay in touch. Don’t worry if you’re not the best small talker; practice will help you to master the art of conversation.
The Wall Street Journal, 8/13/13
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